Have a good image. Try not to look like you just came out of a funeral. Your image is primarily based on your attitude. If you have a sunny disposition and greet each day with a smile on your face, you'll make the people around you happy. Remember that attitudes are contagious, and your image carries your attitude. Instead of spitting at all passersby, try smiling and saying a kind word such as, "Good morning", or "Hello". Try to make others around you happy. Why should you get to have all the fun?
Clothes:
- Wear bright colors. Wear colors like yellow, orange, and pink. Try to stay away from black, browns, and grays.
- Wear shiny shoes. Who says Dorothy is the only one who gets to wear the ruby red slippers? Sparkly ballet flats are an excellent add-on to any outfit.
Hair:
- Keep your hair shiny. This means taking a shower everyday, but only washing it about twice a week. Lather the shampoo on to the top of your head, rinse, and repeat. Lather the conditioner on to the length of your hair. Rinse, and repeat. Pick a good hair company to supply your hair care products. Don't overload your hair with chemicals and hair spray, as this will quickly dry it out and ruin its texture.
- Have a nice color to your hair. Blonde is good, but it isn't the only color that's acceptable. Reds and browns are fine, and if you're extremely sunny, you might be able to pull off black. If you really can't pull off being sunny with black hair, consider dying your hair.
- Choose a nice hairstyle. You don't need to have your hair in an uptight bun at all times. Let your hair down. Try to keep that "care free" vibe with your hair. You shouldn't have to weigh your hair down with chemicals to look good. Natural is best for this step.
Appreciate things that are taken for granted. Dance in the rain. Make your family breakfast. Take a nice walk. Smell the flowers. These are all things that most people don't do because they assume that they can do it anytime they'd like. Live each day with gratification, because it can end as soon as it started.
Show generosity and personality toward others. The cold truth is: if you are completely devoid of personality and kindness, people will most likely not enjoy being around you. You should be the one to light up the room. Say things that make people smile and laugh. You don't need to be a class clown, just be a pleasure to be around. Show others that you are nice. Pick up things dropped, tell people funny jokes you've heard, and start conversations with those you don't know.
Have a good outlook on everybody. Don't judge a book from it's cover. If you can evolve from a dark, unknown creature into a sunny pleasure, so can that unsocial kid in the corner. Don't be afraid to strike up a conversation with a stranger.
